Dear ShakeUp Team,
I have been dating this guy now for two years. He has been a great boyfriend and I really care about him deeply. But after two years we have been through our share of ups and downs and it seems like now our arguments are more frequent and becoming more hostile. He brings up issues that I’ve shared with him from my childhood to use against me and he has even called me out of my name a few times. I feel really disrespected by this and I have tried to talk to him but there was no change. I really don’t want to break up with him but I know I don’t deserve to be treated this way. What should I do?