Dear ShakeUp Team,
Hey, I’ve been married to my wife for two years, and when I met her, I thought she was the healthiest person ever. She’s a vegetarian, and generally she takes extremely good care of herself. Well, the other day I noticed a receipt on the table from a liquor store . . . and saw she’d purchased cigarettes. I went through her purse and found a pack hidden in one of the pockets. She came clean and told me she’s smoked for about five years. I can’t believe she’s kept this filthy habit hidden from me the entire time we’ve been to- gether! It’s one thing not to reveal everything to someone you’re dating, but this feels like a betrayal of trust since she’s not who I thought I was marrying. Does this mean she’s lied to me about other things? Can I ever really trust her now?