So guys I’ve had this friend for the last year or so and he’s really everything I would want in a guy. He’s thoughtful, flirtatious, and cute — a little hood and everything about him makes him my kind of guy. He’s very nonchalant and open — but I always feel like I’m missing something. He’s flirty with me to the point that he will make me think he likes me, and then occasionally I don’t think he likes what I got at all (if you feel what I’m saying). I think if I asked him if he was gay he would totally tell me the truth, but I don’t think I could handle it. You know — he’s probably bi sexual and he just likes what he likes. He’s no queen, at least I’ve never seen it, but I feel like if it’s not that he’s gay… maybe he’s not just in to me. What should I do? Ask? Try him? What if I try him and he gay anyway? Do y’all feel me?