Dear ShakeUp Team,
A few weeks ago, I came home and found my girlfriend getting ready to get dressed and leave after I had been at work for a long day. When I asked her where she was going, she told me her friend John had recently broken up with his girlfriend, and wanted to pay her to come over and cook for him and do some light cleaning. I’ve only met her friend once and although I do think that he’s probably good looking, I’m not sure how I feel about my girl going over his house to cook and clean for him, even though she was still doing the same in our house. We split things 50/50 for the most part, and she mentioned that we could use the extra money as we start to look for our first house. I don’t know how to feel and no one that I know has ever dealt with that before. Any advice? Should I feel like she’s just getting’ money or should I make her stop?